So this literally happened minutes ago. So me (28m) and her (39f). Sorry for the rambling but I want everybody to get where I’m coming from. A little back story my wife and I met over 3 years ago in Thailand while I was over there on vacation.
My little bit of Thai and her little bit of English we still hit it off. I was there for 2 weeks and everything was obviously very “special bede time” while I was there. Honestly the best S of my life.
I went to live with her and her family in Thailand for 6 months. Her family and everybody was amazing she comes from a very religious background and everybody was super accepting. So I have her come to visit and after 3 months it’s either we get married or she has to return to Thailand. So we decided to get married because everything was going good.
And here and there she has made some impromptu trips to Thailand to see her family and friends etc. Just recently we have decided to start trying for a baby. We tried for a few months to no Avail, and she comes up with the idea to go to Thailand because Harmon therapy and invitro is cheaper.
You always hear the stories of women just wanting to be with you for a better life for themselves or her child. Everything seems genuine and we get along great but so many people have put stories in my head that I don’t know what to believe whether she has a fling in Thailand and I want to believe she just wants a good life for or she really wants to be with me.
But the baby turned out to look very different, My whole family is pale Chinese, she is also a Thai Chinese and her family was also quite white. But the baby came out dark brown.
Any personal advice would be greatly appreciated.. Thanks