Once this situation about travelling is over I’m going to book myself an only-me shiok shiok solo trip to Bangkok. Heck care already. Every time travel with the wife last time her holiday style so different from mine.
I like to nua in the hotel, by the swimming pool. But she just wants to go paint the town red, go out and chiong shopping, makan, explore from morning to nighttime. I like to sleep in, she likes to wake up early. I like exploring in the evening, she likes to go out in the morning.
So, it’s no surprise that I’m looking forward to the day when I can finally book myself an only-me shiok shiok solo trip to Bangkok. Heck care already!
It’s not that I don’t love my wife. I really do. But it’s just that the way we both like to travel is so different. I’m more of a lounger. I like to stay in, relax and take in all the sights. I’m not one for early mornings, and I’m definitely not one for all-day shopping trips.
My wife, on the other hand, loves to explore. She’s always looking for the newest and most interesting places to visit. She’ll spend hours trawling through the markets, trying out food and drinks, and picking out the best souvenirs to bring home.
So, when we travel together, it’s a bit of a compromise. We usually start off with me lounging around in the hotel, while she heads out to explore. Later in the day, I’ll join her for a few hours, and then we’ll both head back to the hotel to relax.
But, when I’m in Bangkok, all bets are off. I’m finally going to have the chance to do what I want, when I want. I’m not going to have to worry about compromising, or trying to fit in with someone else’s schedule.
I can start my days late, lazing around in my hotel room or by the pool. I can take my time exploring the city and all of the amazing sights. And, I can spend as much time as I want in the markets, trying out food, drinks and souvenirs without feeling rushed or pressured.
I’m also looking forward to the freedom of being able to do things alone. Instead of having to wait while my wife browses the markets, I can explore at my own pace. And, instead of having to rely on someone else to take pictures, I can capture all of the amazing moments for myself.
Most of all, I’m looking forward to having a break from the everyday. Travelling solo gives me the chance to switch off from the stresses and worries of life, and just enjoy the moment.
There’s something so liberating about travelling alone. Being able to make my own decisions, without having to consider anyone else’s opinion. Experiencing a new city without feeling like I need to rush through it. And, most importantly, being able to relax and enjoy my own company.