Hey everyone, currently in a predicament and would definitely like your input.
I (30M) and my brother (26M) currently live with my parents (both 70) somewhere & overall it’s been okay, but I definitely feel like I need to move on with my life and be independent.
The situation is this: I don’t practice the same religion as my parents anymore (parents are mega C) & I also have a BF (32M) who is in the same situation. After years of thought, he and I are in agreement to move in together and to begin our lives. (Parents do not know of him due to their blatant homophobia) & I have to practice my religion in secret.
With that said and done, the problem is that my parents put my name on the deed of the house as I will inherit it in the future.
I decided to tell my parents that I have plans to move out and immediately my dad spazzed out. He began to tell me that I am very ungrateful, that he worked hard for me to have a house, that rent is mega expensive & even said if I had a girlfriend who is “poisoning” my mind. He also told me that I am “forbidden” to move out and to take care of the house once he is gone. He also told me that if I move out, I will be disgracing them and that I need to support them until they leave this earth.
I also asked about in regards to my brother and they admitted to me that they will built a duplex in our house for him to move in and that he and I are to remain here. I talked to some family members and they are divided. Some are in agreement for me to move out and others are saying that for not being grateful and that I am a spoiled brat.
With that said and done, people of the internet should I move out?