I never thought I’d be the kind of person to be in a situation like this. I had been in a few relationships before, but nothing as serious as this one. My girlfriend and I had been together for two years and were even beginning to talk about marriage.
But then, one night, I went to a private party with some friends and I saw something that changed my life.
My girlfriend was working as an “entertainment lady” or hostess. I was shocked and disappointed. Here was the woman I was about to commit my life to work in such a sleazy place.
I wanted to break up with her right away, but before I could, she broke up with me. She said that I was going to a place like that and that she didn’t want to be with someone who was so judgmental.
She just contradicted herself, but whatever.
She had to work in a place like this to make ends meet and I was judging her for it.
I tried to talk to her and apologize, but she wouldn’t listen. She said that she was done with me and that I was too judgmental for her to be with. I was heartbroken, but I accepted it.
But then, a few months later, I ran into her again. She told me that she had quit her job and was now working in a more respectable place. She said that she had been planning to quit before I saw her, but seeing me there made her realize that she had to get out of that life.
I was so relieved to hear that she was doing better and that she was taking care of herself. I was still hurt by the way she had broken up with me, but I was glad that she was doing better and that she had taken the steps to get out of the situation she was in.
I still think about her from time to time and I wish her all the best.
But one of my friend said: “Probably she is so embarrassed you caught her so she accuse you of going to this kind of place to break up”