My(19m) son is dating my boss(50f)
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I found out about it yesterday when I came home two hours early and found the two of them making out and getting it on.
It’s been going on for a month now, according to them. He insists that he knows what he’s doing but the age gap and the dynamics are both worrying.
My son said she was the one who made the first move and she admitted to this as well. They both tell me they are serious and my son begged me to accept the relationship.
Netizens’ comments
- Of course, she made the 1st move and will bet if you and him talk more, he may come to his own conclusion how disgusting this is.
- Gender swap it and ask the same question. No reason why the answer needs to be different.
Not sure what you can do though. Does your son work at the same place? HR issue?
Maybe you just have to let it play out because I don’t see what other options you have. Outside of just being there for if/when it falls apart. - This sounds like a conflict of interest for your boss.
Does your son understand you can be in deep trouble at work? If you get fired because your boss got fed up with your son or whatever, does your son understand you won’t be able to pay the bills and getting a job right now is difficult?
Is this a big company with HR or is this like a business in which your boss is the owner?
You need to tell HR because this person cannot be your supervisor anymore. Your boss can retaliate at work if you do not accept their relationship, or if they break, or for whatever reason. That’s highly problematic. - it is super creepy of her, your son is totally blinded by it, HOWEVER if you so much as try to split them up, chances are you will create distance with your son and when things go south, he may not come to you or may feel stuck. The only thing you can do is make sure he still sees his friends, still studies and takes the necessary steps to build his future and allow this to crumble as it will. Also, make sure people know about this. Shame is a strong deterrent.