Thai gf hinting at money requests
She’s always saying things like buy me a car, buy me this or that. She says she’s just joking but she’s not really because she obviously wants a car.
Then it’s the constant comments such as I have to buy a new phone for mom but no money etc.
I give her money and buy her stuff as I see fit but I hate to constant attempts she uses to try and get more I say no every time and she hasn’t dumped me yet but it makes me feel bad even though it’s her financial mismanagement that’s to blame.
I’m concerned if we got married and said no she’d take the farm since she would have leverage as now she has none.
Here are what netizens think:
- Don’t be a walking wallet mate. Be careful. Honestly, bail out.
- All I can add is that these type of things are not issues that I normally have with my wife (who is Thai, we are married nearly fifteen years). This is not normal, or cultural, or something you should just accept. I mean of course she wants a new car, or gold jewelry, or some new toy – me too – everybody wants stuff. However, my wife has always been practical in the understanding of our finances and what we can afford and what we can’t.
- The best advice I have for you is to have a serious discussion with her and lay all your cards on the table, tell her exactly what you have to work with financially, and she should do the same.