A while ago, I reconnected with my first gf whom I dated in uni, A. The problem is that we are married to someone else and we have kids.
I am married to the woman I cheated with when I was dating her in uni. She is married to a man, who is fairly successful. Our relationship when we were younger was doomed. It was toxic, hurting and addictive.
A was beautiful and insecure. A little psycho and exciting. I broke up with her as it got too much.
I have been keeping tracks on her on Facebook and Instagram.
She got married and lived a typical Singaporean family life- busy with kids, husband and work. I am surprised that she could lead this sort of ‘boring’ life. Despite the years and child births, she became more beautiful in my eyes. Maybe she looks more confident. I intentionally got in touch with her and one thing led to another. I look forward to seeing her all the time. Everytime we meet, it is just hot. Just like we were younger, but better. It is not just the S but everything about her is intoxicating. Her smile, her laughter, her voice.
I realised that I love her after all these years and changed circumstances. She told me that she will never leave her husband. She said what we have now are just infatuation and a mistake. She said she did all these with me to get revenge on my wife and that she does not love me at all. She says to just let go before the kids get hurt. I am getting mixed signals from her words and body language.
Yes, I will let you go, A. You always did things your way.
Here are what netizens think:
- She has grown up and be more matured over the years, probably because of the lesson you taught her back then.How about you? Still made the same mistake of cheating? And this time is even worse bec you are married and have kids.What if your wife finds out? And your ex doesn’t leave her husband. You will lose the family and your wife. Nothing left for you.Come to your senses…cut tie with your ex, no matter how good sex or feeling can be. Go to your wife and be nice to her even more. Grow up and be more mature too. Playing cheating is childish and irresponsible. Be a good role model for your children. Take care
- Other people’s wife look hotter over the years because they were loved and well taken care of by their husbands. Please shower your wife with more love and attention. You are clearly thinking with the head in your nether region.
- This story sounds similar to a tamil movie titled 96. But of course, you couldn’t respect both women and cheated both times unlike the hero in the movie. So your movie title should change to 69
- “The problem is that we are married to someone else…”Dude the problem is NOT the marriage but the fact you can’t keep your pants on