I will never forget the day I saw my girlfriend without any clothes on. I was 21 at that time and it was the first time I saw a girl completely without any clothes on in reality.
We had been together for a few months, but this was the first time I had seen her without clothes.
She was beautiful and I could not take my eyes off of her. I was in awe of her perfect body and curves.
My traditional mum was not okay with it
My traditional mum was not happy when she found out. I had thought that she might be okay with it, but she was not.
For context, my mum is older than me by about 42 years and I was sort of an accident.
She immediately told me that I needed to marry my girlfriend or else she would not approve of the relationship. She said that it was against our values and traditions and she since I had seen her without any clothes on, I had to take the ‘responsibility’ as a man.
She was also afraid that if this gets out, tongues will wag.
I was torn between my love for my girlfriend and my respect for my mum’s wishes. I did not want to disappoint her, but I also did not want to put an end to my relationship.
I tried to explain my thoughts to my mum, but she was not convinced and insisted that I marry my girlfriend if I wanted her approval.
Decided to please my mum
After much deliberation, I decided to marry my girlfriend. Though I was not sure if it was the right decision, I knew that it was the only way to make my mum happy and preserve our relationship.
I was not sure if my girlfriend was ready for marriage, but when I asked her, she said yes without hesitation.
We got married soon afterwards and my mum was happy.
She was satisfied that I had done the right thing and that I had chosen to follow our traditional values.
Though I was a little nervous, I was also happy that I had taken the decision that I had.
That is the story of how I ended up marrying my wife.