A “shredded 6 pack” guy shared how he thinks most girls don’t want to date people like him because of his strict diet.
Here is the story:
OK hear me out. 3 years ago I decided enough was enough and started my path to getting lean and gaining muscle. I succeeded I have a visible 6 pack and I’m currently doing a clean bulk.
My overall appearance is good I think. The thing is, every time a girl is interested in me and we start to date they quickly start to get annoyed by the fact that I’m extremely picky or selective with my food.
I don’t drink, I don’t eat trash food, etc. They think that I’m a weirdo or something like that.
And I don’t blame them but… How did you think that I got this physique? Just doing exercise? (one girl once told me I spend too much time in the gym also).
Obviously, I’m not saying you should want or accept my obsessive actions but I’m so sick of people assuming you can get my body with like going 3 days a week to the gym.
- Just get yourself a 6pack girl
- Hold out for a woman you’re compatible with. Shes out there waiting for you too.
- Real talk, man – join a crossfit gym.
I started working out at one and realized that every girl in there was really fit. And they all worked on their diets and that’s kinda what they were focused on. You might have some good luck there
- When I started dating my fiancé he was a gym rat and super clean eater. Not that I ate ‘junk’ but every time I’d suggest something to eat he’d say “I don’t eat that”. One day I literally responded with “what DO you eat?”. It was fine with me that he didn’t eat bad foods but eventually for him he started eating the same things as me. Within a year he stopped going to the gym, and started gaining weight, not crazy weight but he wasn’t shredded anymore. Now 5 years later we both go to the gym and eat good.
I would say in the beginning of dating just plan to go to a restaurant that sells foods you would eat. This way it’s not so noticeable that you eat strict foods and your date can have whatever they want.