It was a decision that changed my life forever. I had met this beautiful woman from China many years ago and we hit it off almost immediately. I had no idea that she would eventually become my wife.
Little did I know when I first met my Chinese wife that she was in this because she was planning to use me to convert her citizenship to become a Singaporean.
I thought all along that we were just two people really in love, never thought I was a stepping stone to her Singaporean citizenship
I was oblivious to her real motives, and I thought that we were just two people who were getting along really well and falling in love.
It wasn’t until after we were married for a few years that I found out her real plans. She had been planning to convert her citizenship all along, and had used me as a means to do so.
She had befriended me, then eventually married me so that she could get her Singaporean citizenship and then leave me with nothing but a broken heart.
When I discovered the truth, I was devastated. I had been tricked, and my trust and faith had been betrayed. How could she do this to me? I felt so betrayed and hurt.
She filed for divorce a while after I helped her get her Singaporean citizenship
My wife left me a while after getting her Singaporean citizenship, and I was left feeling empty and alone. I was heartbroken and had no idea what to do. I was in so much pain and confusion, and I had no idea how to cope.
It’s been a few years since this happened, and I’m still struggling to come to terms with what happened. It’s been a long, difficult road, and I’ve had to learn to forgive and move on. It’s been hard, but I’m slowly learning to trust again.
I know now that not everyone has the same motives as my former wife but I can’t seem to bring myself to love and trust someone again especially women from PRC.
I wished that I could get through this but I guess it will take up a long time.