Hi. Just want to rant.
23yo M in NUS. My girlfriend 21F adds on to my already overloading stress.
Yes she helped me a lot quite on a few occasions and she is rich but her parents are not supportive of us.
And she will constantly berate whenever we argue because I don’t always listen to her, using that argument “I give you my time, my body and everything, can’t you do a bit of thing for me?”
And when she meant a bit of thing, it is like I quit whatever I am doing (studying, working etc) in the middle of the day just to spend time with her. And I felt I did my job as a boyfriend to her. I take care of her, cook for her, clean her room whenever I go over to her place.
I just tried to be there whenever she needs me. But yet each time she exhausts my patience by making ridiculous commands. When I had a glowup after being rejected my secondary ex-crush, I attracted quite a few of girls but I refused to contact them as I had a girlfriend already (even my ex-crush asked me out). However, my girlfriend will get super jealous over everything and even confront my colleague like WTF??
I don’t even like to talk to anybody, let alone my colleague and just because I OT, she thinks I am cheating. For my ex crush case, honestly fk my ex crush because she literally sow discords + bring up the past of all the things I did for her when I made it clear I didn’t want to do anything with her.
I even blocked her. And somehow my girlfriend trust her more than me. I had to fucking threaten with pills to force my ex-crush to stop bothering me. And when I meant overly jealous, she can even get jealous over my fucking dog. Moonie is just a sweet dog and she relieve my stress every time, naturally I love moonie like my own daughter.
Yet my girlfriend can get jealous when I showed affection to Moonie to the point where she even locked Moonie up on one occasion just so we can get our “personal space”.
She is just a dog bro, what is there to get jealous of?
Honestly sia, is she crazy?