What would u do as a parent if ur kid suddenly doesn’t want to go to school and one day when u ask her, she cried and said “Teacher X beat my hand with a comb like this” and kept crying begging not to go to school.
The Teacher denied this and the principal gaslighted me telling me “Why ur son always sleepy in class? Why never allow early bedtime?”
I told the principal back “Please don’t try to gaslight me here, you haven’t answer my question as to why your Teacher is hitting my son with a comb? And now my daughter fears going to school nowadays.”
The principal is possibly covering up. Should I be a Karen and go further with this case? My son is always crying begging not to go to school and to go to grandparents house instead..
My son is not even naughty and very obedient… I am stressed to what to do now. I get the low pay but no excuse to hit my child till my son is literally crying and begging not to send him to school!
Here are what netizens think:
- Feedback to ECDA and they will investigate thoroughly. You might need to check if the preschool has security camera footage to verify the situation. There will be a final response which you are to decide if you will accept. You might need to transfer your kids to another preschool. Good luck
- Don’t know your kid boy or girl lah. Uncle here want to gently remind young parent out there, please stop accusing teacher without evidence and put up an attention seeking post. From the way you reacted, I seen your type before, you are one of those floor is bad parent and your child can do no wrong type. I can already imagine how it went down. A small comb beat on hand probably not that serious since you didn’t mentioned about how bad the bruise is. You go down and make a huge fuss out of it probably some shouting too until the principal probably got flabbergasted by your reaction to a point that it reacted in a gaslight manner to you. That is likely how it went down with your selective phrasing. You should really ask yourself of your parenting method, if your kid can don’t want to go school because of a small comb beat on hand. What should have being done is find out why if your child is naughty in class then tell your kid what is wrong and don’t repeat it again. That is called parenting and like that you have a chance to raise a somewhere decent child that grow up to be fine.
- Be a Karen, request to view CCTV. If there’s bruises on your kid’s arm, take a photo and go to the doctor if the abuse is severe. Since you check with the teachers and they cover up, request to see the CCTV. If they refused, you may file a report with the police and allow them to check the CCTV for investigation.