A woman has shared a story of her husband ex-girlfriend who she said to be a psychopath. In her post, she mentioned that the girl was a stalker and she will go all the way to find her boyfriend’s whereabouts.
She will do crazy stuff like trying to get pregnant or add Viagra to her boyfriend food so that he could have sex with her.
Here the Full Story:
“This is a long one but.. I just need to get it out of me.
My husband and I dated for 2 years before getting married. We basically are all about each other, with nothing much to complain except for his daily forgot to put the toilet cover back down moments and the typical gaming too much matters. He’s the best partner I can ever ask for and places me above everything else. There’s only one problem that is driving both of us crazy; his psychopath ex-girlfriend.
I am not calling her a psychopath for no reason. They broke up before we officially started dating, (at least on his end he broke it off) this I am certain because I’ve seen his breakup text and we are also not hiding or anything. We legit met each others family, and friends. (His family hated the ex-girlfriend too anyway). She refused to acknowledge the breakup, and that’s fine, I know people need time to let go. But the problem is, she’s a stalker.
To begin with… my husband is traumatised by this woman during their 7/8 years-long relationship. I’ve seen conversation histories and talked to his friends and family to verify that. He’s not a cheater. Probably 3 years into the relationship or maybe even earlier, he started trying to call it off.
She.
1. Somehow got the whole world to put the blame on him that he’s letting such a “wonderful girl” go and he’s at fault, dunno how to treasure blablabla. My husband is a noob at socialising tbh. He doesn’t have many friends and all these ppl only hear her side of the story obviously. So he could only keep quiet cause… yeah that’s him. We fought over that too. She will also get close to his colleagues and start telling them how abusive he is and plead with them to ask him to cherish her.
2. Refuse to use condoms. When he insisted, poke holes in condoms and when he found out, admit to it and go on to say she’s pregnant and will “settle it” if he doesn’t want the baby. Never once let him go with her to the clinic for the procedure or see any paperwork. And den whenever he brings up a breakup, blame him for the abortion that he never was able to be there for. Sex was becoming a chore apparently.
3. NSFW point. After giving him a bl*wj*b or after sex, uses a mirror to check how much he cum because apparently according to her there should be a certain amount of cum if he’s not cheating. (Guys… disturbing a not?)
4. Added some viagra (or something similar) to his food without him knowing so that she could force him to have sex with her. She doesn’t give a damn if he’s allergic and I’ve also seen the text of him telling her straight he hates having sex with her and doesn’t even want to touch her. Apparently… no shes not affected. Put drugs in food, climb on him, get the job done. And then feel proud of herself and continue telling him how he’s nothing without her.
5. Call his whole family just to haunt him down when he decides to ghost her finally. Threaten to hurt people around him if he doesn’t cut them off. Stalked him at the staircase and even pull down her pants and ask him to screw her to prove he’s not cheating. (Thankfully… I am on the line to prove he did not). And moreover, at that time we were already officially dating and he already broke up on his end. But … yah.
6. Logged into his Facebook and Instagram without him knowing. (Haven’t figure out how she knows the password but we thinking either he forgot to logout after she demands he logged in to let her check his accounts while they were still together, or she bugged his phone. We have changed the phone.) I went on Instagram login history and found login timings of like 4 am from her device near his place and MY workplace too. (Nope definitely he’s not with her as we sleep with the phone line connected before we got married.)
7. Post 1k over post on her Instagram about how he’s mentally abusing her and how worthless he is but ends the post with telling the world how forgiving and loving she is and is (insert 5k words here), so loving and faithful.
8. Made a copy of his mailbox keys and have been taking his mails including bank statement and don’t know what else. We have since changed the mailbox lock.
9. Post tons of stuff on Instagram claiming is from him when…. i know its not. Because i commented on her post to question it and she blocked and delete me immediately..! (Nearly a bunch of flowers every week.. which of you normal office man can afford it? Or want to waste such money even if you can?)
10. We earlier in the year cut off payment for an insurance policy on his card which is for her policy. It’s a small amount and he didn’t notice it so when I did while going through our transactions I demand we cut it off. And we called the bank to do so. However my mistake to ask him no need to cancel the card. 2 months later there was another deduction on the same card which we did not authorise. We have since made a police report to see if she has authorised the payment (since she has his card details anyway) and we have also cancelled the card.
P.S and she loves to post selfies on her ig and the typical “don’t know why everyone comments on my skin very good”, “I don’t put makeup one”, “i just walking only got abang to ask me am I lost…” basically, her Instagram is either quotes to call my husband serial cheating and herself a forgiving saint, or selfie of self-praise.
AND ill never forget what he told me. That she told him she knows someone in the army or DTSA (that I forgot), that can use GPS to track him down wherever he is. And he believed it because she did turn up at places and situations he didn’t want her to. (To me, simple stalking because… really? Breaking the law to use the country’s GPS to help her track someone down?
If this person sounds familiar to any of you (but I guess not since she’s really good at sounding like the wise woman you MUST marry….), please ask her to give herself some respect and move on. You can’t force someone to love you or choose you but you can love yourself and make yourself worthy of love. My husband can be a jerk, but he definitely doesn’t deserve such treatment by someone who claims to love him “deeply”. If you are calling him abusive on your ig and calling him useless, constant comparing him to your friends that open shops and blablabla, move on to someone like that.
He’s with me and I’m happy to have him cooking scrambled eggs for me every day.
And if anyone has worst experience about “exes from hell…” i really want to hear it and read it with my husband so we can laugh over our bittersweet experience and maybe you can laugh with us too. 🤣🤣🤣 as the Chinese saying goes, 苦中作乐。would appreciate some advice too. As off yesterday, it seems she is still stalking us”
Source: Storience.co