I have this friend (A) who’s in my clique but the rest of us don’t rly like to hang out with her. Basically she’s very self-centred and only cares about herself and what she wants.
Wants everything her way, will show attitude if she doesn’t get her way
If we decide to go somewhere she doesn’t like, she will black face the whole trip and keep complaining about this and that.
And for the outing she plan, we are not allowed to make any comment cos she will kick up a big fuss and act one victim that we don’t appreciate her.
Basically she’s always very negative and make us feel uncomfortable so we don’t like to hang out with her. To deal with this, we created a new chat group cos none of us have the guts to remove her from the old one.
But then one day my other friend accidentally typed in the old chat “see y’all tmr” and although she deleted it very quickly, we think A still saw it.
Now she fomo, so keep jio us out individually
She never expose us in the chat group but now she keeps pm each of us to ask us out. She’ll ask us what we’re doing over the weekends, free for dinner anot this kind of things and it’s very hard to not to tell her that we are alr meeting just without her.
Feels bad to also keep saying that we’re not free to meet too. But good thing for her is she very persistent never give up.
Keep asking and asking. The funniest tactic she used was that she dreamt of us going out to eat durian so she jio me out to eat but I can’t stand the smell of durian and my whole clique knows so I don’t know which planet she is living on.
Maybe metaverse.