I had been happily married to my husband for a few years now. We had a wonderful relationship and both felt very content in our lives. But lately, something strange had been happening. My husband had started taking regular trips to Johor Bahru.
He would tell me that he was going to pump petrol and then come back, but I had a feeling that he was doing something else.
Every time he came back from his trips, he would have over SGD$500 in cash and return with almost nothing. I suspected that he was visiting sleazy massage parlours and other such places. I was worried about what he was doing and why he was lying to me about it.
One day, I decided to confront him about it. I asked him what he was doing in JB and why he was coming back with so much cash. He was taken aback and didn’t seem to want to answer my questions. He tried to change the subject but I persisted.
He kept quiet so I decided to plant an Apple tag in his car and I finally have the evidence to confront him. What *spa name redacted*?!
Finally, he confessed that he had been visiting massage parlours and other such places. He said that he had been doing it for a while now and that he was sorry for not being honest with me. He said that he felt ashamed and embarrassed to tell me the truth.
We had a long talk about it and I made it clear that I wouldn’t tolerate any more lies. He promised that he wouldn’t lie to me again and that he would never go back to those places.
But he still wants to go JB to pump petrol. What should I do? I can’t follow him every single time I have my life and job too.