I am a Thai Girl working in Singapore, not the type where you would find in Golden Mile.
I hold a proper 9-6 office job and here is my story about how I lied about my ex giving me STDs because I was so angry with him for ditching me.
The story
I was feeling so betrayed. I had been dating my boyfriend for the past six months and I thought we were really clicking.
He was the perfect guy for me, always making me feel special and giving me the attention I deserved. I felt like I had finally found true love.
But then he suddenly dumped me out of the blue. He didn’t even bother to explain why he was breaking up with me, he just said he didn’t feel the same way anymore.
I was so hurt, it felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I was devastated.
To make matters worse, I was so embarrassed and humiliated that I lied to my friends and family about what had happened.
I told them that he had cheated on me and had given me STDs. I was lying, of course, but I just wanted to make myself feel better and save face.
All of my friends and family were disgusted with him, but I still couldn’t get over the fact that he had dumped me. I still kept thinking about him, wondering if he had found someone else to replace me. I was so angry and hurt, I couldn’t stop crying.
Finally got exposed
But then something happened that made people come and ask me if my account of why we broke up was true or if my ex bf’s account is true.
My ex had been telling his friends the reason why he dumped me.
He said that I had been too clingy and that I was suffocating him. I couldn’t believe it! I was so angry, I wanted to confront him and tell him what a liar he was.
But I didn’t. Instead, I just kept lying about how he had given me STDs. I was so desperate to feel better about myself and to make him look bad that I didn’t even care that I was spreading lies.
It was a terrible mistake. Soon, everyone had heard about my lies and I started to get people ‘flaming’ me. Everyone looked at me with contempt and disgust. I felt so embarrassed and ashamed, I wanted to disappear.
My lies had ruined my reputation and I had no one to turn to. I was all alone, with no one to rely on. I had made such a huge mistake and I couldn’t believe how badly I had messed up.