A Singaporean man has reached out on social media seeking advice about his budding relationship with a Filipino woman employed as a maid in Singapore.
The man clarifies that the woman is not his domestic helper, but someone he connected with through social networks, expressing concerns about being blinded by infatuation.
Key Aspects of the Relationship:
The man outlines several positive aspects of the relationship:
- The woman frequently messages him, expressing affection and appreciation for small gestures.
- Describing her as caring, he notes the woman’s attentiveness and consideration toward him.
- Notably, she has never asked for financial assistance, though she mentioned her family’s financial struggles back in the Philippines, which he attributes to her current employment as a maid.
With the woman’s contract ending soon, the man contemplates the possibility of a future together, even considering a visit to her family in the Philippines.
Seeking Advice and Expressing Hesitations:
Acknowledging his uncertainty and seeking advice, the man expresses hesitations about being “blinded by infatuation” and contemplates the challenges that may arise. Despite mutual affection and frequent meet-ups on her off days, he remains undecided about the potential success of the relationship.
The man’s confession
This girl I am seeing, she is a maid in Singapore. She not my maid. I just got to know her through social network. I scared I am blinded by infatuation. So I want to be rational. She is from Philipines.
Firstly, she message me often, misses me, cute. Any small little things I do for her, she has always shown to be very appreciative towards me.
Secondly, she is quite a caring lady towards me.
Thirdly, she never ask any money from me at all, although she did mention her family home is not very well off. (obviously, otherwise she wouldn’t have to work as a maid)
Her contract will be over soon.
I thinking la, wanna be together with her, go PH see her family or not. I haven’t decided.
I humji la honestly. So far we seems to like each other a lot. Every off day she have, she always meet me.
What do you all think? Do you think this relationship will work out? What challenges I face? Can all the experience kor kor and uncles prease advice? Thank you all!!