Everyone has trauma. You’re not special. Grow up.
I’m sick and tired of people nowadays overexaggerated their bad experience and keep calling it “trauma” and use it as an excuse to be such a huge inconvenience to other people’s life.
You can’t change the past. Bad things happened, just learn from it and move on. Stop asking the same “why me” question. You don’t need to get all those questions answered at all. Learn to let go of it. You have so much opportunities to rise and stand up after every fall. So quit bitching about your “trauma”. Quit bitching about not being able to grow. You can. To choose not to. You created your own prison. You have the key. I mean fuck, the prison isn’t even lock, you can just leave. But you choose to stay.
Yes, the you don’t deserve to go through such horrible things. But if you choose to live in the past, not growing, not learning, then you deserve every bad things after.
Like seriously, you’re not special. Stop wearing your trauma as if it’s some badge of honor. Here’s the reality of modern society, people nowadays just want to be victims just to get any sort of pity from everyone else. All of that for attention. Generally, you live such a great life, you don’t even count your blessings and took it for granted. And where do you end up? Absolutely no where. Just being an inconvenience to everyone and keep using the trauma card as free ticket to be a lil piece of shit.
Grow. The. F Up.