So i (F20) live with my parents (F42 & M45)and my 2 sisters (F18 & F16) .
For the past nearly 2 years I’ve been doing all the house work at home since I get pretty annoyed when its really messy. Doing jobs like cleaning, shopping, laundry, dishes, cooking etc
However, in those years I’ve finally realised that I do all of it and get no praise for it and only get a ton of “you are so useless” and “you are so lazy” from my family
I felt like a maid and recently after my grandmother passed on I’ve been left to deal with it even more than usual but I haven’t really have time to do it as I have just started working and have been pretty busy.
I asked my siblings and parents for a favour to do it in the hopes that they will help to at least upkeep the cleanliness and tidiness so that I can at least come back from a hectic work day without feeling annoyed.
Guess what? None of them bothered to do anything and they just continue to take me and things for granted and this makes me feel even more and more annoyed with them.
I’ve finally come to a stance that I’m only going to clean my stuff from now on since I can’t deal with them taking me for granted anymore.
They can go out wearing their unwashed and dirty laundry for all I care and get laughed at by their peers.
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