My wife (20f) doesn’t respect my(21M) privacy. Is that something one sacrifices when getting married?
Told my wife numerous times to please knock when I’m using the toilet. She barged in and wouldn’t stop pushing on the door until I forced it to close.
The door hit her on the face and now I’m not sure if I’m at fault.
I feel like I should still have my privacy but is that a sacrifice that comes along with marriage?
We’ve been together 3 years now. At the beginning of our relationship, I had told her to please knock when I’m using the toilet since she had barged in while I was taking a shower.
She’s done it a few times since then and I’ve told her not to every single time. Yesterday, I was standing in the toilet waiting for the water to warm up when she pushed open the door.
I had pushed on the door and asked her to wait and she proceeded to yell at me and push her body weight against the door. I asked her to wait and she still kept pushing.
Here’s where I went wrong, I got so pissed off that I ended up pushing the door closed and it hit her in the face.
She’s not hurt or anything but she’s constantly bringing up. She doesn’t understand why the toilet is a big deal and truthfully it’s not.
She’s knocked before and I let her in. I’ve never not let her in as long as she knocks.
But it was the way she reacted. Pushing on the door, saying I hit her in the face and that she did absolutely nothing wrong.
She cries and tells me she feels like ending it all. She calls me crazy and stupid and I just need to know if I am. Are my feelings valid? What do I do? I really like my privacy but she doesn’t see it as a big deal.