my boyfriend is unseducible.
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I try everything from rubbing his thighs, his chest, sitting on his lap, grabbing his behind, kissing his neck, basically everything.
I can’t seem to turn him on when we only bang in bed when he initiates, I can’t initiate because otherwise he has no interest.
what’s worse is that he immediately pushes me off and says “stop it” because I think touch can be overstimulating or annoying to him
but it makes me feel so rejected and like I don’t turn him on
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the only way I can turn him on is by literally taking my pants off, getting into bed at night and trying to rub up against him.
otherwise we don’t bang, because when I outright communicate that I want to, he says no. it’s really incredibly frustrating.
Netizens’ comments
- Does he have touch issues in general? Like on the spectrum?
- You are not physically compatible. It happens. Some folks simply aren’t emotionally, financially, culturally compatible. That is why relationships end. It’s healthy to admit when something isn’t working. You can do better.
- My wife is the same, tried talking to her. It’s just the way she is. It’s hard because I want to build the tension before hand not get right into it.