Man pens heartbreaking Facebook post after he caught his wife cheating with another man.
He managed to contact the man and the man imply that he is going to fight with him if they ever meet stating “lets see who is madder”
The man who pens the post is residing in Malaysia and his wife is working in Singapore. She herself has admitted that she has a new man in Singapore.
He caught her cheating with a PRC worker who works in Singapore as a delivery driver.
Here is his post (translated):
Divorce laws can’t do anything to you. But I can show you how I survived the year of betrayal, torture, and devastation… I can’t do anything to you because of the law. But, face you don’t want anymore. Why should I keep you… Nine years of marriage, you smashed everything for a Chinese worker.
On your side with divorce laws… I’ve been in a beating situation.
Why have I been home for my children for nine years. Fight for your life. In exchange for that it is… Depression… When I tell you that I can’t accept all this and suffer from depression, I’m afraid I really can’t think about it.
You said to me in cold blood. “So many people are going to die, why don’t you see you die?”
I walked around the ghost door and came back. I knew I had to live for my children.
I threw the lifeline desperately, but fortunately, someone really caught it. No one has a way to understand, just like that, completely withdraw the pillar of my life. Crushed… I’m glad I was able to leave that little bit of sanity and go to a psychiatrist to help myself. Why should I live so stubbornly?
I am to you, to the family, to the children.
I’m not ashamed I try to be a 100% husband, 100% dad. In exchange for a merciless betrayal…
My heart is dead… I only ask you to raise your hands high and all the benefits of your children. Can be spread out to talk about and discuss… But you brought the dog bastard third party to me in front of the child and provoked.
Family ugliness must not be publicized.
Pui…. The home is gone, what an ugly.
I’m petty. Why don’t you stand in my shoes and take a look… Why should I swallow all my grievances into my stomach?
I’m for my family, I’m for my children.
Desperately a man broke in… A lot of times when others are sleeping, I’m already working outside.
When you just gave birth. I line up to work so that you can rest assured that you can recuperate.
After the birth of the child, I worked very hard to be a 24-hour filial piety father.
Be a new dad, learn how to bathe your newborn and take care of everything… Learn to cook for you to cook a healthy meal… Stewed red date water.
Accompany you to get up every two hours to feed… In the past nine years, I have done my job as a breadwinner, although you have quit your full-time job since you got married.
I take you all over the world, and when I have a work trip, I bring my family with me, so that my family can see different places, and different cultures. I did something wrong that left me alone with the pain of losing everything… Why.
The little dog bastard should be glad he was in Singapore and not here…
Otherwise, I might have beaten him, but I chose to be rational and take the legal route… In order not to want the child’s father to bear the legal responsibility of beating people, the Singapore Ministry of Labor has been pushing me for lack of evidence.
All I want is justice… All I want is for those who violate labour laws to be sanctioned… I was wrong about something. There are pictures, there are conversations. The grounds for divorce are also clearly stated on the divorce vow and are approved by both parties.
“She’s having an improper association with a third party and causing the breakdown of the marriage” and her transcription of the conversation also makes it clear that this disruption of the existence of a third party in the family… M.O.M ignored the evidence again and again, and let this criminal guy continue to be arrogant.
Thank you to those ex-wives’ pig friends. Let me know to treat them like my own friends. In exchange for a few more stabs in the back. Let me know for sure. It’s not like you can exchange a heart for a true friend.
I’m also thankful that I have a long class of true friends, family, who know me. Help me get my life back. Accompany me all the way down… Cry with me on the video call, drink with me… I really, live this life without regrets.
Don’t think the law is just… Because of this, I deeply feel that my children and my rights and interests have been completely eroded by the law. Adultery is not guilty.
For mothers, there is no need to prove anything to have a near advantage in child custody.
For the father, in terms of custody, it is necessary to prove that the other party is not worthy of motherhood.
the injustice of divorce,
The divorce argument you made to me is something that I can completely overturn with evidence.
But I still swallowed it all in my stomach… In order not to let his son be involved in the affairs of adults anymore
Deliberately destroying my family’s call
PRC man, work permit holder
Worked as a delivery driver at woodlands Lee X noodle factory.
I made it clear to him that he was taking wp to destroy the family in Singapore. In fact, the employment ordinance has been violated. But he brazenly challenged me to call the police. As seen in the screenshot, the other party was even bold enough to provoke me.
He said he wouldn’t mind buying two more plane tickets if he was sent home. The metaphor is to take my child with me. I have already called the police for the record. I really don’t want to give it all up like that. But was forced to have no choice. I know things are going to get awkward. When you choose to put your child in a mentally hurt situation again and again. I have to stand up. To be positive.