My husband and I have been married for about two years now.
At the start of our relationship, we spent a lot of time together, maybe because we also were still students back then but after we started working, the amount of time that we spent with each other became lesser and lesser. And worse still, after we got married, we stopped going out for date nights and don’t do anything special together anymore.
We are both homebodies so we like to stay home but even though we are physically in the same house, we don’t really talk and just do our own things. Most of my friends are married and we always like to talk about relationship issues.
We concluded that divorce is becoming quite a common thing nowadays and a lot of couples who looked very loving can suddenly just divorce their partners because they no longer feel that emotional connection with each other. This scares me a lot because when I think about it, I don’t really feel butterflies anymore when I see my husband. I don’t even find myself excited to spend time with him.
It’s not that I don’t love him but I guess we have lost that spark in our relationship and I’m very scared that we will end up like other couples divorcing each other.
Here are what netizens think:
- if all married couples require “spark” all the time no one would remain married, u think ur ah gong ah ma have spark ah, maybe u go sparks disco find
- Your mindset you marry who also forever no spark.
- Don’t waste time lah, go be a nun then you wait Chinese new year the sky will have alot of sparks.