My husband and I had been married for the past five years, and we were very happy.
We had a great relationship and I thought we could trust each other. We had been together long enough to know all of each other’s quirks and tendencies, and I had no reason to be suspicious of him.
That all changed when I found out about “Blue Wave”.
One day, while I was going through my husband’s phone, I noticed a text message from his friend. The text said “Let’s meet up for a Blue Wave” and my husband replied “Sure, when?”.
Naturally, I was curious and asked my husband what a “Blue Wave” was. He stumbled over his words and told me it was just a code name for eating supper by the sea in Johor Bahru.
Alarm bells started ringing in my head and I asked him why he can’t he just say supper?. He assured me that it was just a regular meal and nothing more.
I was not convinced, so I decided to do some research on Google. I found out that it is actually a massage parlor my husband had mentioned was notorious for offering “special” services. In other words, it was a sleazy massage parlor, and I was horrified.
I confronted my husband about it and he admitted that he had been going JB for a few months. He said that his friend had recommended it and he had been going there for “relaxation”.
I was appalled at his behaviour and I felt betrayed. I had trusted my husband and I had never expected him to do something like this.
I was so angry and hurt that I wanted to leave him. However, I decided to give him a chance and I told him that he was not allowed to go to the massage parlour ever again. He promised that he would never go back and that he was sorry for hurting me.
I don’t know how to forgive him.