I just found out that my husband had been taking money from our insurance endowment plans to fund his s- holidays in Bangkok.
Said he was going for a ‘business’ trip
I had suspected something was going on for a while. He had been acting strangely and had been away on more and more “business trips” lately. But I had never expected this.
I was so angry and hurt I could barely think straight. I had trusted him, and he had betrayed me. I had put so much of our savings into those insurance endowment plans, and now he had taken it all away.
I confronted him about it, and he had the nerve to lie to me. He claimed that he was just trying to make a better future for us by taking out money from the insurance endowment plans to invest in a business in Bangkok, but I knew he was lying. I had seen the emails from the travel agency and the hotel in Bangkok.
He tried to apologize, but it was too late. I was done with him. I told him to leave and never come back.
I was so broken and devastated. I had worked so hard to build a life with him, and now it was all gone in an instant. I had invested so much of my time and energy in this relationship, and I felt like it was all for nothing.
I was so angry and hurt that I couldn’t even cry. I just wanted to forget this ever happened.
So I did. I put my head down and went back to work. I threw myself into my job and tried to forget about what had happened.
But the pain was still there. I was constantly reminded of my husband’s betrayal every time I looked at the withdrawal statements from the insurance endowment plans. Every time I saw the money he had taken, I felt a sharp pain in my chest.
It was like a knife twisting in my heart. I felt so betrayed and angry. I had trusted him and he had betrayed me.
The worst part was that he had taken away our future. We had planned to use that money from the insurance endowment plans to fund our retirement and now it was gone. I was so angry and hurt that I couldn’t even think about it.
I had lost everything. I had lost my husband and I had lost our future and my money put into the insurance endowment plans. I felt like my life was over.