My husband and I are 26. We have 3 kids.
Despite popular belief, I, a mom, look forward to f-ingmy husband all day.The thing is, I don’t really know how I should ask for it.
I asked my friends and they said it’s sad and desperate for a woman to ask her husband for it because men want it 24/7 and they should be pushing them off.
3 days ago was my 26th birthday. I really wanted to get f-ed on my birthday. I wanted it to be special, like it was my birthday gift.
My husband made me breakfast, and got the kids to make me cards, and at night got the babysitter and took me to dinner, then when we got home put the kids to bed and ran me a bath, gave me a back massage, and…slept on the couch.
I kept waiting thinking he was coming back… and eventually I fell asleep but that morning he was still gone.
He thought for my birthday I’d want the room to myself so I don’t have to “deal” with him. As if it’s a chore for me to share a bed with my husband.
In reality what I wanted was the exact opposite. I wanted to get absolutely plowed when the kids fell asleep and then cuddle with him all night. I don’t get why it’s acceptable for men to receive intimacy as a gift but not women?
Maybe it’s my mom and friends in my ear, but is there no way for a woman to properly her husband to f her?
Netizens’ comments
- He’s your husband, just ask for it.
- (OP) Like what do I say though?
- “F me please:
- (OP) Like what do I say though?
- I’d tell him that. “I loved what you did for my birthday, but I’m my mind you were absolutely plowing me, as soon as the kids were asleep. I wanted to fall asleep cuddling you. I love and want you so much <3 Thanks for being you!” Or something similar.
You could also just text him, asking if he is free tonight, as you intend to claim the birthday present he forgot about and then inform him of the underwear you are wearing.
Or, honestly, you could just come onto him old fashioned style. When you go past him, squeeze his butt, tell him he looks really handsome, and make suggestive comments with a wink. You could also simply pin him to the wall, when he comes into the bedroom at night once the kids are asleep.
Honestly, in my experience, a lot of men absolutely love it when their partners seduce them, show them how much they are wanted and desired and take the initiative. It tends to be a traditional man’s role, but most men want to feel just like women do – attractive to their partner and wanted. The idea that women just “do it for their partners” or maybe even “lie back and think off something else, as he gets on with it”, can be really damaging – because who wants to impose themselves on anyone, even less someone you love and cherish? Many of my male friends have told me, that the best intimacy they had, wasn’t actually someone who was really skilful – just someone who was super enthusiastic and highlighted how much they loved every minute. I’ve gotten a lot of compliments along a similar line from partners too, as a woman.
So yes: Don’t listen to your girlfriends! Go for it! In whatever shape you fancy! There is a good chance your husband will absolutely love every minute of it! - Just kiss him and start rubbing his crotch, he will automatically kick things off from there.