Ahh where do I even begin? My husband was sent home Thursday from work after two hours and stated he “was being investigated.”
Obviously I’m curious why and ask. Welp. He was being investigated for harassment at work. Okay. I don’t make decisions impulsive so I wait till the next day to find out the results as his work says they’ll have it wrapped it by Friday. (This whole time though I’m ignoring him.) he’s giving me this sob story that everyone at work is against him and they’ve all congregated to “sabotage” him.
So Friday comes around and they allow him to keep his job. But he signs an agreement that it happened and it wouldn’t happen again. Something at this point still isn’t sitting right with me so I tell him if he wants me to speak at all to him he needs to tell me the girls name.
He tells me. I go back and forth about messaging her. (I’d never tell him).
I asked the victim
She is 21. (I am 34 and my husband is 40). When she started at their work she was very damaged. my husband began to flirt. They exchanged numbers. He gave her rides home after work. She said in his car he’d ask her to kiss him and she would say no. She said she tried distancing herself from him at work but he started to get weird and aggressive.
She stated he would pull on her hair or grab her butt. He would tap on her shoulders. He would stare at her. She also said if another man at work was speaking to her he would get very mad. She didn’t feel safe. She said she wanted to message me but got scared and didn’t want to make it worse for her. I get that.
What should I do?