Every day I tell myself that my husband was my own choice so I have to stick it out no matter how difficult it may be but honestly, some days I really feel so exhausted to the point I wish I could just let everything go.
Doesn’t bother about the children
We have two children and one more on the way, and I don’t know if it’s a guy thing that he just doesn’t show it, but he doesn’t seem to be attached to our children at all.
We both work 9 to 5 and unlike me, when he comes home, the first thing he spends time with is his phone.
I’m not against him using his phone. I understand we all need our alone time but I just thought that while the kids are still awake, he could afford to spend sometime with them before they go to bed.
After they do to bed, he can do whatever he wants and I won’t disturb him.
He always says that our kids like to stick to mommy and that they dont want his company.
Although I admit that our children do tend to gravitate towards me, if he doesn’t try to engage them then how are they going to know that their dad’s company can be equally as fun too?
The saddest part is I didn’t use to like kids. In fact I didn’t want any kids and he was the one who kept pushing for us to have our own.
Feels like i’m the only parent
Now that we have our own, it feels like I’m the only one in this by myself. I’m really tired and I really need him to step up before I break down.
Sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I never met my husband.