You are a mama boy (reply to this story)
You should understand what your gf parents are worrying about. They worry that one day, you will choose your mom over your future wife aka her.
I used to date a man close to his mom, likewise, my parents kept telling me to be careful because he will definitely pick his mom.
At the start, his mom was very nice and i didnt bother much. But as time passes, my parents were 100% right.
His mom would make dramatic conjectures about us moving away to bto flat and more imptly, accuse me of making her son unhappy and confront me, after hearing a one sided story from him.
What’s most gross was that he never interfered to tell his mom to back off, 100% what my parents predicted. And on top of it, his compromises were never compromises, it was just attempts by his mom to control or insert herself in our lives.
So your GF parents probably saw this coming from your interactions, think about it, if you were someone who vould have clear boundaries and will 100% choose wife above parents, why will they be worrying?
Also, my parents are just like your gf parents. They believe in wife/husband > parents as its your future partner and parents should not cling on too much etc.
So its very clear that your GF parents sees your mamaboy tendencies and worry for their child, while YOU clearly will never put wife first. So yall just incompatible in family dynamics, save your gf the misery and break up.
And also yes, i broke up with the manchild because his mom too much drama and i don’t think i should bother dealing with crazy MILs. And more imptly, HE cannot tell his mom to respect boundaries.
So women, open eyes big big before getting married to a man who will not defend you.