I’m wildly attracted to my boss, and I think he’s attracted to me too
I (32F) am incredibly attracted to my boss (54M). He’s not your “typical” good looking, but as I got to know him the attraction grew. We’ve been working together for about a year.
I know that it is lust – it is purely a physical attraction where I honestly just want him to jump me if he ever gets the chance. It’s gotten so bad that I actually get wet when I’m on a zoom call with him, and I get distracted.
Im starting to drop hints and subtly flirt with him to see if there’s any chance. We work remote, so we aren’t “in the office”, but instead we are on zoom calls together every day.
If anything were to happen, it would only be couple of times a year when we travel together for work. Next time we go on a business trip I might have to find a way to get him into my hotel room.
I know it’s a bad idea. I know that lots of people will say I’m a whore or that I absolutely should run the other way. I know the pros and cons, I’m not here for judgement.
Im here for suggestions and input from anyone that has been in a similar situation.
How do I make it clear (without outright saying it) that I’m into him? What are some signs that might indicate to me that he has similar feelings?
Netizens’ comments
- If yall single, who cares?
- It almost sounds like a cliche by now because this has been said so many times, but I’ll say it again, never poop where you eat. You don’t want the problems and troubles that come with if the relationship or hook up goes wrong. It’s just nasty, don’t play with fire if you don’t want to get burned.