Pressured to have kids by my mom.
I’m turning 25 this year and I’m still trying to find financial stability. My mom told me that if I wait any longer it would be too late for me to bear a child. Every year I avoid Chinese New Year’s reunion because of this issue.. so stressful!! Freezing eggs and bearing the child at a later age can also cause complications for me as well.
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Here are what netizens think:
- My wife have my first child at the age of 21 and now she’s in the 40s. My son now finished his NS and a daughter now in poly. So we are a happy family
- Don’t rush into marriage if you are not prepared too. But one thing is for sure if you don’t try to open up your heart or don’t try to have a relationship. You will never get married at all. Life is a gamble. You never try to place a bet you never know the result. If you keep afraid of failures you are never going to get what you want. Put out your right leg and move ahead you are 25 and there are going to be more years to come. Be brave and take whatever is coming and move on.
- Just remain single. Nothing wrong with it. Can lead a carefree life. Want to go anywhere also can. Nowadays modern women are like that. When grew older, find a pet dog or pet cat to be your lifelong companionship. Nowadays, South Korea people are like that also. No need to freeze eggs. Reunion dinner is only few hours in a year. Don’t attend it can save a lot of ‘face’ issues.
- Everyone love their mom but certain things like this , nvr ever let them get involve .. so dont need to be stress .. listen to their advice but dont let them control you unless you still taking pocket money from them…
- I had my 1st at 39. Not a choice but the fact that it gets harder as we age. Some are lucky. What i wanna say is, if u do plan to have kids later, plan properly. Yes 25 is still young but dun wait too long