I have been married to my husband a few years now and we have a toddler. I don’t know to call it a blessing or a curse that my husband has a high S drive.
The best thing is that his S drive only applies to me and not to any other girls.
So due to that, I would say our S life has been fantastic throughout. Sometimes in the day he would talk dirty to me, spank my butt and or give my breasts a squeeze when he walks by.
He is basically like a beast in heat everyday.
So the problem comes when our toddler is starting to understand and process things. My husband seems to not be able to control his urges and would still continue to talk dirty and spank my butt when our toddler is around.
As you know kids around this age, they do know what is right and what is wrong and would sometimes mirror what adults do.
As our toddler was sleeping with us in the same room, my husband would sometimes even tell me he wants S when our toddler is asleep. I felt the request was so ridiculous and there was once I was so angry with him that I told him to get out of the room and forced him to sleep on the living room for the night.
I feel that he still does not seem to have the maturity and the responsibility of being a father after 2 years.My fear is that he will attempt to get some ‘help’ outside if I continue to reject his needs. Yet I cant bring myself to let him continue with such nonsense when we have a toddler around that is of a very impressionable age. I cant imagine if the next time our toddler goes to preschool slapping other girls butts cos he seen it being done at home
Right now what I can only do is to promise him that we will deposit our toddler either at his parents or my parents house once per week and then we can have a few hours of alone time. At least then there is something for him to look forward to every week.