I would like to ask, for people who went through divorce, how did you stay strong with the courage to move forward?
I’m tired of my husband constantly accusing me of cheating and bringing up the past incidents.
I have mentioned to him that our love language is different and I keep asking him to try, but his response is, aiya we together so long already, any couple old already also same like us one.
I still love him, but more of a friend than a lover. I care for him. However he can’t handle divorce maturely, he blocked me on everywhere possible and we have a kid together.
Sometimes I want to convey information to him is also frustrating. It’s like it’s the wrong love and we are not getting any younger.
I don’t want to be treated like this for the rest of my life. Yet a part of me is sad to let a marriage go. It’s like I look at him and I know that this marriage just won’t work out.
He treats me nicer as a friend. I feel that as a friend I am first class citizen but as a lover I dropped to third class citizen.
People who went through divorce, please share how you’re able to pull through it?
Netizens’ comments
- You still love him but more of a friend than a lover, you cheated before, you have a child? Divorced but you can’t move on? What the f you talking about?
- If u wronged someone, don’t expect to be treated right