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WOMAN DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHY HER FRIEND MARRIED IF SHE WAS GOING TO CHEAT

What is the point of living like this?

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Just want to rant.

I have a friend married for only less than 1 year. She cheated on her husband with her colleague who was still going through divorce proceedings. Nope, she is not the Xiao 3, it just happens after they started the procedure. And it was the guy who approached her. Not finding excuses for her though.

Everything was “fine” till the husband found out. Surprisingly he forgave her and welcomed her back into their “nest” after she promised to make a clean cut with the other guy.

This friend of mine is very very close to me and we talk on the phone every other day. I was the only child and she was my only playmate back in our school days. That is almost 30 years of friendship.

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But I know she is not happy because she feels indebted to her forgiving husband. He will also always remind her of her wrongdoings. There is one night when she called me and her husband snatched the phone over and asked who is it! He knew me so he let her have the phone back but I could feel so much rage in his voice.

It happened a few times more and once I heard him slapped her. It happened with a slapping sound followed by my friend screaming and then a thud. She was crying and then the line was cut. I couldn’t get through to her for a whole 2 hours. I tried to find her address to see if she is ok but I realized I didn’t have her new house address.

Later she called back and said she fell while trying to stop her husband from taking her phone away. I kinda doubted it but she insisted so I never pressed on. I only reminded her that somethings will not only happen once and it’s up to her to walk out. She responded that she doesn’t want to be lonely.

We talked a lot lesser after that incident and she will always try to cut the conversation short. I met her mother a week ago in our neighborhood and she told me she is so disappointed in my friend for cheating. She even hinted that she is ungrateful for she is still complaining when her husband was magnanimous enough to forgive her. I am very shocked that even her mother was taking the side of the husband and blaming my friend. Now she has no support or anyone to talk to! I can’t help but feel it’s the husband who told the mother. I know my friend’s relationship with her mother. They’re not on very good terms and my friend doesn’t like to appear weak in front of he mother. I don’t think she will ever tell her.

I don’t know what’s happening to her now because she seems to be keeping a distance. But I couldn’t help but feel so sorry for her. Is it so important to keep a unhealthy relationship that you need to endure all this kind of abuse?

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I know I can do nothing. Just ranting.

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