Who is the victim here?
My husband met with an accident last month. It was a very bad one and it left him paralyzed and bedridden. He can’t eat on his own, can’t talk and needs help with every single thing.
Today, I went down to the Family Court to apply for divorce. Nope. I am not going to care for him. I am walking away from this marriage because I’ve had enough. And I believe whatever had happened is the work of Karma.
My husband will vent out his anger on me and our children, hurling vulgarities and using fists to show his authority. He will curse and swear on my family and whoever I love just to cause further hurt and damage on me. He had cheated on me on multiple occasions. And when I was at my lowest, losing my job and being broke, he wasn’t there to support me financially nor morally. He expects me to go out and find my own means to survive.
When I suggests separation, he told me he will take the kids along with him. He used that to scare me as he knows I can never live without them.
I cried every single day, feeling angry and resentlful towards him. I prayed that God will take him away from me one day.
And here it is. The day has come.
Judge me if you want. I have been through enough with this man. He wasn’t there for me not through thick nor thin. So why should I be there for me?
Who is the victim here?