Hello all:
I will like to seek advice about how to deal with my in law here, especially from those whom are married.
My brother recently got married, as his girlfriend was pregnant. Our family is a normal Singaporean family. Unfortunately I can’t get along with his girlfriend, aka wife now. She keep comparing and gossiping about me behind my back. She’s 23 years old by the way, my brother is 24.
She loved to tell our parents how poor I am, she say these things weekly at our family dinner gathering. She said I am earning SGD1.4K where else she’s earning RM2500 in Malaysia. she’s a vietnamese working in Malaysia and she come from a rich family background which her father is a businessman. Recently she brought a car using her dad’s money and she mentioned that I have no money to buy a car. I was thinking, what the heck do I need a car for? SG is so small. She also like to mentioned that I do not have a husband and kid.
I simply don’t understand what’s the fun in comparing. I mean, we are all individuals, no one is the same.
I feel like blocking her on my social media accounts and after the baby is born, I will not give him/her any present on his/her birthday, which I knew, this thinking of mine is childish. They are organising their wedding dinner in July, which I am totally not keen in attending.
How do you all normally deal with an in law like that, and do you all have any siblings just like her, whom like to compare?