A woman shared how her husband pleasures himself to photos of her friends and she doesn’t know what to do.
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Husband self pleasures using my friends’ photos, what should I do?
Me and my husband have known each other for 8 years and married for 3 years. I’m currently pregnant with our first baby.
The doctor advices us to stop intimacy for a while to avoid miscarriage, and I also don’t feel the need, so we agreed that my husband would finish himself off.
The thing is, I found out that he hasn’t been using normal adult videos. Instead, he has been using images of some of our friends.
We met each other in uni, so we have lots of common friends. Some of them are teaching yoga, practicing belly dance, or modelling, so they occasionally upload photos in suggestive poses to Facebook and Instagram, and my husband is using that.
Among them there are some really close ones that often visit our house for dinner, and that really concerns me.
So far my husband has been really nice to me and takes good care of me. I’m sure he hasn’t cheated yet, physically at least, because he works from home everyday and never leaves the house without me.
Still, I feel uneasy with the situation. From my pov, I can see 3 options: 1. Leave it be and forget about it. 2. Confront him and risk having a huge quarrel or 3. Initiate to help him ease the urge.
What should I do then?