A woman shared how her husband doesn’t find her attractive while she was going through his emails, and now she is heartbroken.
Here is the story:
I recently found an email from my husband to his dad from just before we got married (we got married about 4 months ago).
I wasn’t snooping in his emails he’d asked me to find something he’d sent his dad a while back and I stumbled upon an email thread with my name on it.
I couldn’t help myself but read it (stupid I know) but it was full of pros and cons for getting married to me.
This isn’t out of character for him as he is incredibly indecisive and an overthinker in all parts of his life but the thing that has got to me is on the cons.
One of them was, not very physically attracted to her. It’s broken my heart and I don’t know what to do.
Netizens’ comments
- be honest and ask him about it?
- I would talk to him about it. Idk that would be dealbreaker for me, I want someone that I’m physically attracted to and that is physically attracted to me. Which is possible and I have already found my other half. Otherwise I would feel like they are settling and would feel guilty I’m holding them back.
- Let’s be honest, it’s something that is hard to recover from. It will always be in the background of your mind. Often, physical attraction grows with love, but physical attraction has to be there in the first place. You should talk to him about it, try to understand what he doesn’t like in you, maybe it’s something that can be improved but chances are he will try to dismiss it as something he wasn’t serious about. This is really weird, we make check-lists for errands, not for a partner.