I found out that my boyfriend of 2 years is married and has kids, I’m showing myself to his family tomorrow
I’ve been seeing this guy “Adam, 32” for 2 years. I never met his family, friends.
3 weeks ago, I found out that he’s actually married and has 2 kids, I was devastated and in a state of disbeleif but most of all, I was mad, especially after I confirmed this via his wife’s social media account.
We’re still talking and I haven’t broke up with him yet…I planned and decided to show myself to his family and let them know that he used me and took advantage, I plan on ending it right there and then.
I’m currently staying at a hotel, I’m doing this tomorrow and no one knows except myself, He’s still texting me lies thinking that I’m stupid or ignorant.
I feel terrible but something’s pushing me to do this. Don’t know if it’s anger or feeling bad for his wife and kids..I just…I’m not gonna lie I’m worried this might back fire at me but at this point I have nothing to lose, I just feel like I need to get my respect and dignity back after being lied to and fooled for 2 years.
Netizens’ comments
- Talk to the wife, not publicly. Leave the kids out of it.
You have a right to be hurt. But hurting children and a wife that did not do anything to you puts you in the wrong with him. Be an adult about it - As scummy as that is, it is pretty remarkable that he got a way with it for so long. I can’t even take a shit without my wife and kids hunting me down
- You can get your respect and dignity back without traumatizing his kids in the process. Tell the wife but leave the kids out of it.