WOMAN GOT REJECTED HALFWAY DURING HOOK UP, GUY COMPLAIN SHE’S TOO “TIGHT”

I got rejected because I’m too tight?

(28) F here. Met up with a guy on Friday after what seemed like a good connection. We were f-ing and he paused mid saying I needed “an average” guy because I’m too tight?

He was complaining that he was feeling more pain than pleasure and blamed it on me, saying that he’s trying his hardest to stuff it in and he’s not enjoying it at all.

So he’s into loose women? Can you even feel anything? I don’t know if the problem here lies with me or lies with him.

everything went from great to bizarre. I have been with guys around his size before and never had a bad time? am I the problem?

Netizens’ comments

1. I’m too tight but I’m the one bothered by it. Everyone has different sensitivities. Guys of a certain size rip and tear me; even with lube and going slow and prepping me. But they don’t feel discomfort themselves.
   You are the opposite version. You didn’t feel discomfort but he did. Nobody is wrong or bad. Body compatibility is a real thing. Don’t take offense. Just move on.
2. Not a problem with you, just his preference. There are way too many people in the world for either of you to worry about this.
3. That really is one odd preference, but to each their own. It’s better he was up front now instead of months later.
4. My friend (well endowed) says it absolutely hurts to the point where he wants to tear up when he’s with someone too tight. He’s been turned down and turned down many girls cause of this issue.
   It’s not you at all.
5. I’ve heard guys say it can hurt if they are too big for their partner. They do stretch more when fully turned on though so he could have taken time out to pleasure you more. Either way nothing wrong with you, don’t worry about it, sometimes things don’t work out
6. Personally? I don’t like overly tight. My wife thinks I’m weird. I’ll spend a long time “warming her up” prior to piv, too relax her and make it looser, although occasionally I’ll really cave getting a squeeze too.
   Social expectations are that tighter is better, so there is a mindset, specially in younger people, that if you’re not super tight you’re not as good as the next.