Trying to be very brief because I have limited time.
I work Mon-Thursday so we tend to have my stepson stay (Fri-Sun) and school holidays. He’s 10 however is on the spectrum, I tend to do most of the childcare but this is because I have more understanding and patience when it comes to autism – my husband has love for his son but not really much understanding.
So I’ve picked our son up from school Friday and I’m in front of everyone he yanks down my top, thankfully I was able to catch my top before I actually flashed anything.
One of the other mothers complained to our son’s biological mother and I got texts complaining, insulting me and saying it was inappropriate of me as I was not wearing a bra and I should know this since I work with children – I work with 2-5-year-olds and I wear a bra to work as I’m aware that they like cuddles.
I told her that son has enough understanding of the world, he’s been assessed and I talk to his teachers, that he shouldn’t be yanking down my top.
She genuinely believes I should not be a teacher knowing that I was going to be around children that what I do in my home is my choice but not in public etc.
Genuinely wondering how am I in the wrong? This world is just so judgemental.
Here are what netizens think:
- Let me get this straight, on your day off, you went to pick up your son, who pulled your top down while you was hanging 10(braless), which didn’t expose your actual breast and someone has a problem with that? Tell her 2 words and the second word is off
- just ignore her she sounds like the type whose going to be a b.. to her kids stepmom. I’m assuming there’s a good reason your husband divorced her.