I hate having intercourse with my GF while she’s on her period but she wants to still do it
My (23M) GF (20F) are in a sort of long distance relationship where we are away from each other. I’m coming home for a couple of days, but she’s currently on her period.
I love being intimate with her but doing it on her period grosses me out. I know it’s natural and I shouldn’t judge it but at the same time I don’t wanna do it.
It hurts her feelings when I tell I don’t wanna. What can I do to help her relax and calm down when I tell her again?
I told her that I’m planning a huge date that’s gonna be filled with many dates all in one day because I want her to understand that I’m not grossed out by her in any means.
I want her to feel loved and attractive but at the same time I want her to just understand that I’m just not comfortable doing it while she’s on her period.
Netizens’ comments
- Consent goes both ways. She needs to respect your boundaries.
- Though it hurts her feelings, she should respect you dislike that. A relationship is respect for each other.
- Have a conversation with her about it. She can respect it or not. If she doesn’t, you may want to reconsider if she’s the right person for you.