I hooked up with a friend and now I’m confused
I (26f) recently hooked up with a long-time friend (28m). Before the hookup we were getting kind of flirty and hanging out more often.
We kind of joked about hooking up and so when I came over with a bottle of vodka after we’d both had a rough/stressful day at work, we ended up getting a little drunk and sleeping together.
I wasn’t super into him beforehand but he seemed to be really into me. He wasn’t terrible in bed considering we were both drunk, though he didn’t finish and I chalked that up to nerves and alcohol.
He was super cute and affectionate afterwards, cuddling me and giving me lots of kisses. I’m not used to that from guys and it was actually really nice.
I did end up leaving shortly after because I was getting sleepy and I didn’t want to spend the night over there (I snore really loudly and don’t like sleeping at other people’s places because I’m self conscious about it).
When I left everything seemed fine, he hugged me and kissed me before I walked out the door and I went home.
So now it’s been over a week and I’ve barely heard anything from him. I sent him a message asking how he’s doing and the conversation is just very short and dry.
I’m worried that maybe i was bad in bed and I was just too drunk or maybe he just doesn’t like me anymore now that we’ve slept together?
I’m just so confused because of how into me he was beforehand and how affectionate he was afterwards. I guess I’m more just curious about what his thoughts are on the whole thing and don’t know how to talk about it.
I just wanted to add that I’ve known this guy since we were 15 and 17, and I’ve never known him to be the kind of guy to hook up with a girl and never talk to her again.
He’s really nice and sweet and I’m 99.9999999% sure that this wasn’t a situation where he just wanted to use me for my body and then never talk to me again