A woman refused to meet her in-laws for reunion dinner because they “die die” want to have it at dinner time and want their son and daughter-in-law (OP’s husband and her) to come back on CNY Day 1, and their (the in laws’) daughters to go back on Day 2.
Here is the story:
To ppl who don’t want to meet in-laws for CNY.
My in-laws are very traditional people where they die die want to have reunion dinner only on CNY eve dinner time (without their daughters) and only want their son (my husband) and I to go back on Chu 1 and their daughters to go back on Chu 2.
Even when we now have children, because of their stupid logic, the cousins cannot meet at their house during CNY.
They have an earlier reunion dinner every year with their married daughters and don’t mind us joining but still want us to have reunion dinner on CNY eve dinner time with them.
We die die have to go back on Chu 1 and don’t mind us joining on Chu 2 as long as we go back on Chu 1.
What logic?!?!
Anyway, my in laws did something to upset me a lot since 3 years ago so enough is enough (with my husband upsetting me too), and this year I told my husband I’m not going for reunion dinner and visit my in-laws’ place and my children will follow me. This has gotta be the best decision made. Lol.
I don’t mind burning relationships so if you don’t mind too, just do it.