My boyfriend doesn’t have enough strength or stamina to finish me off and it’s frustrating.
For some background, me and my boyfriend have been together for seven, almost eight months now and have been sleeping together for about three.
This is our first serious relationship we’ve ever been in. I love my boyfriend, who we’ll call T for the time being, and wouldn’t trade him for anything in the world.
T cares for me and treats me like no one else has. He is the only person I’ve trusted enough to see my body, or truly become one with me. Everything has been great. Outside of the bedroom, at least.
When me and him try to do anything, he is the only one who finishes. You know, what most women deal with. I don’t hate him for it, because he’s trying unlike a lot of other men.
If anything he’s a lot more gracious in the bedroom than I am. The thing is, no matter how hard he tries, he can’t stick it out.
Oral? Fifteen minutes tops. Fingering? Ten minutes if I’m lucky. Penetration? Probably a lost cause, because it’s usually over in five.
Everything gets too tired or starts cramping or is too hard to do and I was understanding at first, but frankly it’s getting frustrating. For him too. It makes him feel really bad about himself. and I can really see that he is trying his hardest but sometimes it is what it is.
I don’t want to sound selfish, and I don’t want to sound like I’m only in it for intercourse because I’m not. I love him. I want to show him the most intricate and intimate parts of myself. The pleasure is honestly just a plus!
If anyone has any suggestions or tips PLEASE, PLEASE tell me. I’m getting desperate at this point.