I (44f) just grabbed all my stuff and left my (42m) bfs house because I’m tired of him not finishing when we get intimate in bed.
Sometimes he doesn’t finish either. But it’s really been getting to me how he’ll just decide he’s done and go in the other room and play on his phone.
But this morning, after he’d already done did that he came back in the bedroom, where I was about to go back to sleep and initiated intimacy again. He got probably the best bj of his life and left me with my toy and said “I hope you finish”
Wtf is that? I mean, he said and it sounded quite sincere, in fact I’m sure he meant it in a good natured way, FWIW.
So at this point i feel like getting angry isn’t the way, but a little life lesson in humility and self awareness is definitely in order.
Am I wrong? Did I go overboard?
Netizens’ comments
- He knows what he’s doing. No man gets to that age and doesn’t hear the jokes in society about selfish men and not getting their women off. It’s a whole trope at this point. He knows and doesn’t care. He’s using you. Leave.
- So he went to the other room in the middle of it to watch AV and then decided to come back to you afterwards? You were being used as a flesh light. You were right to leave. You are not compatible. Just block his number.
- Girl at 44 I wouldn’t waste another thought on a guy who didn’t care about his partner’s pleasure and satisfaction. He’s old enough to know more and not be so selfish. And you’re old enough to know you should expect and deserve better than that! Walk and
- Giiirrrl. Come off it. He didn’t even stay to use the toy with you and make it a partnered activity. He just walked away when he was done. You are not a flesh light! Throw the whole man back.