I 27f have been with my husband for 8 years and married for 3. We have no children together but plan on trying sometime next year.
The thing is, we don’t have joint bank accounts, we decided we would each have our own that way we could keep track of who’s money is who’s and we could avoid financial issues even though he has no problem providing for me.
I had a small get-together planned with an aunt of mine that I hadn’t seen in 2 years.
Initially, I was going to pay my fare, however I lost my debit card the night before which caused me to report it lost so I could no longer use it at that point and was waiting on a new card.
My husband wasn’t going to be able to give me a ride to the dinner since he was working, so I took a picture of his card and I took money to pay for my fare there and back & my portion of the dinner.
My fare was only $32 there and $46 back and my meal was only $42.
My husband noticed the charges and when I got home he told me he was disappointed and hurt that I would do this, he said he’s trying to save and it’s not about the money but about the principle.
He told me I was a thief and said this says a lot about my character for not asking. I feel we are married and I don’t see how he could see things this way.