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WOMAN TRIES TO CONFESS TO GUY SHE LIKES BUT END UP INSULTING HIM

So there is this guy and we’ve been talking back and forth for a few months now.

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My whole confession is pretty shallow, to begin with, so I’ll just say it outright. I don’t find him as attractive physically (maybe I have a type or maybe I’m just a horrible person), but mentally we are definitely in sync.

It’s just that my definition of good looks is that I can *see* that you put effort into looking presentable, you know?

You don’t have to be naturally handsome or anything, it’s just about being able to clean up nice I guess. Get a haircut maybe, exercise a little, stop eating so much unhealthy food, stuff like that.

And sometimes I feel like that’s not an invalid expectation because it’s not something I’m not bringing to the table myself.

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Ultimately, I am super hesitant in asking him out. I want to, I feel like we’ll click. But I don’t want this stupid apprehension of mine constantly nagging at me.

I know, I don’t deserve him at all.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Physical Attraction is a complicated thing… at times u feel it but u sweep it aside and let it lie dormant because perhaps the person is attached or you have other goals in your mind. But you will feel it even as platonic friends.
  • If you don’t feel attraction physically for the person , things probably won’t improve with time. However,you may experience increased attraction to his other attributes, maybe he became rich or his devotion to you … etc.
  • So he’s not your type. And the feelings might be mutual you know. Usually a guy who is attracted to you will ask for a date . Not once.
  • In my experience, dated one who’s not good looking and not fit but I didn’t mind because I’m not perfect myself either. Point is, it isn’t about looks. It’s how he treats you. The one I dated not good looking nvrm but treated me like I’m nothing. He would talk about how good his exes are (even on the first day we met) and he would talk about how he spent his birthday going abroad and thought it’s weird that I don’t (I only have dinner with my family or parents). Later on he would make jokes about everything including my worries. Then later on he would ignore his own mistakes and invalidate my feelings. Gaslight me. This is also the same guy who won’t make time for me but he has time for his friends until 2am and video games. Weekdays working no time totally understand. But he’s MIA on the weekends too. This is the same guy who said he will not hurt me. Well I guess it’s just words no actions.
  • It’s not about looks. It’s about how a guy treats you. But if you can find someone who has the looks and treats you well, then it’s your luck.
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