A woman shared how her mother-in-law hates her and she doesn’t know how she is going to handle the wedding ceremony with her there.
Here is the story
Mil already ruined engagement by making it about her and having very little involvement in any of the planning/not showing any interest in asking how it’s going.
She consistently puts me down to my fiancé and makes every holiday about her as well so my partner and I always have to cater to her or she calls to yell at my fiancé.
Fiancé has a small family and was mostly raised by MIL. His father passsd a few years ago. She took care of him well until I came along and her attitude towards him changed.
I’ve always wanted a full wedding ceremony with family and friends, but I just can’t get around the fact that someone who ruined my engagement and is capable of ruining a wedding will be there.
My fiancé is not okay with not inviting her, which I understand due to the extent that she has taken care of him and being that she is his only living parent.
What do I do? My only thought is we elope with no family there from either side or I ignore her for one day.