My bf wants to get drunk alone with his female friend and sleep over with her
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We’ve been dating 3 years and he’s known her for maybe 10 months. They became pretty close while our relationship became strained due to going long distance for the past year.
He sees her somewhat often but has never really made plans to visit me without my initiating the planning in some way over the past year.
He told me today he’s going to go over to her place, get drunk and sleep over.
I feel like he’s being disrespectful to our relationship, but he dismissed me and said “the plans are kinda already set in stone, so…”
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What do I do?
Netizens’ comments
- You dump him. He is showing you who is first in his life and it isn’t you.
- That’s wildly disrespectful to your relationship, especially that you voiced your concern about it crossing your boundaries. The “already set in stone” is a BS excuse. I think the only answer is to end things now before it gets worse.